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Fola Achudume, Author of

Stolen Intimacy


Why do people cheat? Have you ever cheated or been cheated?

Can you trust again or Rebuild your marriage after an affair?

Research shows that infidelity or adultery has been one of the principal factors responsible for separation and divorce in marriages. Why is infidelity the order of the day? Why is adultery widely practiced and even accepted as the norm across various cultures of the world?

There are questions we need answers to

  • What exactly is the major cause of infidelity?

  • Is infidelity inevitable? Can you really stay true to your vows

  • Why do people cheat?

  • How do you deal with sexual, physical and emotional attraction?

  • Are love, trust, happiness and restoration possible in a marriage that has been damaged by the act of infidelity?

  • Is it possible to have God's ideal marriage on earth; one that does not compromise His standards?

Based on years of experience at Counselling, Coaching Empowering and Helping couples recover from betrayal, broken trust and pain from infidelity and Stolen intimacies Fola Achudume walks you through

  • How you can heal, forgive and find forgiveness

  • Restore love, joy and peace in the marriage

  • Turn the pain of betrayer into a stepping stone of stronger marital bond

  • Rebuild trust, loyalty, love and sweet sexual intimacy

  • Making the marriage relationship stronger and “affair proof”

  • Renewing your vows to Love, Trust, Care and Share till death do you part


Fola Achudume, is an anointed minister of God equipped for the end time harvest. She is a pastor, seasoned life coach, author, and international conference speaker. Through her life changing books and conferences, men, women and families across the globe have been empowered to pursue and live their God ordained dream.

Fola Achudume has a unique burden to liberate the woman and empower her to fulfill her purpose. This burden has caused a shift in her ministry and taken her to several nations of the world where various initiatives and ministries have been birthed. She is the president of the Victory Women International (an arm of the Victory Life Bible Church), Royal Ladies International (RLI), an interdenominational ministry for ladies, the convener of Royal Ladies Congress in Nigeria, United Kingdom, (UK) & United States of America, (USA).

She is the founder of The Royal Girls Home, a place where abused girls are rehabilitated and transformed to live a better life and GemAme Mentoring Institute, a school instituted to bridge the gaps that hinder young people from maximizing their potentials. She is also the host of "The Royal Lady" and “Life & Issues” an international motivational TV programme, aired globally on FaithworldTV (AmbTV) Fola Achudume is happily married to Apostle Lawrence Achudume and they are blessed with four children.